Ah. Girls who have bitch shields in dating. Surprise surprise: the "shield" is actually a part of herself. One that she uses when she feels above something, which she likes. Hint: it's not going anywhere. The bitchy side doesnt mean she has more value. It means that a part of her is rotten. Like a rotten fruit. What do you do when you find a rotten fruit in your love life? Spin it harder, chew carefully to reach the good part, or drop it and get a good one?

Sure you can chew the whole thing, but is that what you do when you have options in dating? In order to get on top of her bitch shield and disarm her you have to possess more value than her, so she lowers her bitchy game and gives you a bridge, a reason to keep interacting. But if you have more value than her, why exactly are you trying to win over a bitch? That game is rigged to be a hell of a sour ride emotionally.

The worst thing that could happen is that you work your ass off and actually get her as a girlfriend, and then have to sort through her bitchy and non bitchy crazy-making sides on a daily basis. Twice the effort and half the juice. Every date, every text, every argument becomes a minefield. Attraction mixed with hostility drains your energy, time, and self-respect. That’s not abundance; that’s emotional scarcity disguised as a prize.

In short, don't waste your time with them in relationships. Treat a bitch shield as disqualification, not a challenge. When you have real options, invest in women who show warmth, respect, and openness from the start. Healthy attraction doesn’t require you to battle hostility to earn scraps of affection. Let bitch-shield girls filter themselves out while you focus on dating women whose behavior matches the kind of loving, drama-light relationship you actually want.